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All relationships begin with dates, and some end with them, or rather end with a failed personal meeting. There may be several reasons for this, but the main one is the inability to invite a girl.

In order to avoid such a nuisance, you need to use special tips that will help not only to correctly invite a girl on a date, but also increase the chances of getting a positive response from her.

TOP 5 best options for the first meeting

There is an unspoken top five of the most popular first date invitation options. However, it should be understood that their popularity does not guarantee consent to such a meeting.

Therefore, in addition to choosing a specific invitation option, he advises using additional recommendations.

Cinema

Quite an ancient, but still well-functioning option for an invitation to a first date.

Reference! Its advantages are that almost any girl can be interested in such a pastime. The main thing here is to choose the right picture itself and the time of its viewing.

Preference should be given: comedies or melodramas, but horror films are rarely liked by ladies.
As for the viewing time, then, of course, evening is better.
Better yet, invite the girl not just on a date, but to the premiere of some new movie.

Restaurant

Another option that is almost always used. But often, due to its banality, such a proposal is ignored by the opposite sex.

To avoid this, it is necessary, as if by chance, to ask the chosen one herself or her close circle what kind of cuisine she loves.

And here there are two options - invite her on a first date to her favorite place or go to a new cafe where she has not been yet.

A park

At first glance, such a date may seem simply banal, and it will be so if you do not prepare an entertainment program in advance. There are many outdoor cafes and various attractions in city parks in summer.

Reference! To make such a date unforgettable, it is necessary to calculate in advance, at least approximately, the time for both treats and entertainment.

Walk or picnic

An invitation to a walk is kind of like a park analogy, but with a different connotation.

Important! In this case, you can go on a picnic to any place and preferably to where the girl has long wanted to be, but could not.

It can be a trip to the mountains or waterfalls, or just a small picnic in a city park with beautiful surroundings.

No matter how strange it may sound, but it is this option of an invitation to a first date that works most often.

Ladies are always interested in a man who can interest them and tries to surprise them with the fulfillment of their desires.

A party

Such a rather unusual option for an invitation to a first date, ideal for shy young people.

After all, on the one hand, this is a real invitation, and on the other hand. You won't be able to stay alone there, at least not right away. But even this version of the invitation works in most cases quite positively.

And do not forget that the option and place of the invitation directly depend on how exactly it will be carried out:

in person;
through social networks;
via SMS messages or any messengers.

Reference! And if at a personal meeting you can appreciate the emotions and mood of a lady quite easily, then communicating in other ways. it is rather difficult to do so.

The 5 most unusual places for a date with a girl are described in the video:

How to call for a meeting correctly, so as not to refuse

In order to get an affirmative answer to your proposal, you need to use small tricks. In each case, they are different, especially in those situations where the invitation to a date will not be carried out in person.

In contact with

So, in order to get consent to the meeting, you must:

show sympathy for the chosen one;
to start a simple conversation, in order not to miss your luck, you need to familiarize yourself with the interests of a young girl and, based on them, look for a topic for conversation.

It should be short, concise and clear, without any hidden hints:

For example, a romantic person will gladly accept an invitation to a movie or a walk in the park.
A fashionista would prefer to go to some kind of exhibition.

But in order to interest the lady as much as possible, you can keep the intrigue, for example, do not tell her the exact place where the date itself will be, but only tell what style of clothing she should choose.

Special attention must be paid to the time of the meeting. You should not ask when she is free, it is best to ask if she wants to have a good time at 3 o'clock in the afternoon.

Important! Do not immediately write about the upcoming date and your intentions. to begin with, it is necessary to engage in a simple but interesting dialogue for both sides.

How to invite a girl on a date so that she does not refuse is described in the video:

By SMS

Communication by sending SMS messages is relevant today more than ever. Therefore, it is not surprising that many young people make an invitation to a date through them.

Important! In order not to be refused in this case, it is necessary to decide in advance on the place of the future meeting. It is from him that the test of the further message will depend.

First of all, you need to ask how the girl is doing, how busy she is and how exactly and with what she would like to escape from the routine.

Depending on her answers, you can already select phrases for a date invitation:

I am so hungry and would very much like to satisfy my appetite in the company of such a beautiful lady. Will you keep me company?
I drove past the park, it would be nice to walk along the spring paths together, you will become a real decoration of the evening.

When making an offer for a date by SMS, it is worth remembering that brevity is the sister of talent, but do not forget that girls still love with their ears, so a couple of simple compliments between the lines will only increase the chances of getting a positive answer.

By phone

But the greatest likelihood of success awaits those young people who want to make a date by telephone.

In this case, you can assess the intensity of the interlocutor's voice, catch her intonation and correct the conversation in time if necessary.

The main thing to remember:

first you need to ask about the girl herself, her affairs, well-being and find out her immediate plans;
do not drag out the conversation, you should make an invitation immediately after receiving all the answers;
the voice should be clear and confident, but do not overdo it with seriousness, it can scare the lady away;
at the end of the conversation, you should definitely thank the girl for her consent and express how happy you are about the upcoming date.

Reference! Most psychologists today say that it is not so important how exactly the invitation for a date was made and where exactly it should take place.

The main key to success is, nevertheless, the interest of a young man in a girl and his ingenuity.

Basic principles

And in order not to get rejected by a girl from a joint date, you should definitely use the following tips:

Before making an invitation to meet, you need to learn as much as possible about the girl herself and best study her social networks. Statistics prove that in situations where young people are familiar with the interests of their future girls in advance, their chances of a successful date increase many times over.
The fair sex always likes men with a sense of humor and self-confidence, but at the same time they do not like pretense. Therefore, in any situation, you need to be yourself.
It is necessary to try to interest the girl in yourself, even before the invitation to a date, for example, in correspondence.
You can’t be overly intrusive - it always scares people away.

The basic principles of an invitation to a first date are described in the video:

And finally, it is worth recalling that the first date should not last more than three hours, ideally 2.

This time is enough to understand whether you are suitable for each other and whether it is worth continuing to communicate. In addition, in such a situation, it is much easier to interest the girl in yourself even more.

She throws flirtatious glances, supports conversations, shows interest herself. Obviously, it's time to organize the first rendezvous. However, how to ask a girl out on a date in a way that will definitely make a good impression on her? How can you increase your chances of getting a positive response? 8 tips to help you succeed at the beginning of a new romance.

Show originality

Previously, in order to get the attention of a lady of the heart, men killed mammoths, enemies, demonstrated symbols of their power and high status. Fortunately, most of these pretentious and sometimes barbaric methods are a thing of the past. Now, guys don't have to spend large sums or take life-threatening risks to get a girl interested.

However, to get by with a simple “Went on a date?” does not always work out. Modern women value originality. Why her?

The resourcefulness of the chosen one shows whether he will be able to find a way out in a difficult situation. Problems in life are inevitable, and natural ingenuity helps to solve them. How can you pleasantly surprise your companion?

Way	Examples
Surprise or secret	“I know a place that you will definitely like. I won’t tell you where it is, but I can show you.” “This is a very interesting story from my life. I'll tell her, but only on our date. Agree?". “I have a present for you, but I want to give it solemnly. Will you come at (time/place)?”.
Incognita	Send a small gift (flowers, a soft toy) through a courier or friend, along with a love note from a secret admirer. Send an invitation from a fake (false) page of a social network or a number unknown to the girl (do not invite in such cases to sparsely populated places - it looks suspicious). “You know, I have a friend who is crazy about you. He asked me to send him an invitation to a meeting.” She can guess right away, but still appreciate the game.
Compliment	“You are the only person who can truly appreciate this film. Can we go?" “I don’t understand anything in modern painting. You, on the contrary, are a very creative and sophisticated person. Would you agree to be my guide at this exhibition?”. “You have amazing poetry! How about you meet me for coffee and read some of your writings? I would be very pleased".
theatrical role	Find a costume or make up a book/movie character. Invite on behalf of the character (for example, Shrek invites Fiona). Print lines from a movie where a conversation about a romantic meeting is played out. Learn the part of the man. Approach the chosen one, stretch out her words to her. The effect of surprise is important (“Don’t ask about anything, just read your phrases”). Sing a song or recite a verse from a cartoon, play, or other work of love.
Quest	Play a game with her, the winner will have to receive the contents of the mysterious box. Place a note in it with an invitation to a date. Adjust the girl's victory. Hide in an institution or on the street several notes with riddles that consistently point to each other. In the latter, enter the place and time of the rendezvous. Come up with a rebus or crossword puzzle by inserting a key phrase into it with a proposal to hold a rendezvous. Ask her for help in making a decision.

Give her a choice

Girls get nervous too when they get asked out on a date. Sometimes they agree to it, even if they do not like the assigned place. Simply because they want to spend more time with their chosen one, but are afraid to offend him by changing the location. Therefore, it is better to give her the opportunity to choose:

movie genre in the cinema;
type of cuisine in a cafe;
the institution itself;
meeting in a building or in nature.

This will help her to choose the right outfit and feel more free. And if so, then the evening itself will pass easily, naturally, cheerfully.

The recommendation also applies to gifts. Let her choose a toy in a shooting gallery, ice cream on a hot day, or a view, a shade of flowers from a street vendor. The partner will prefer the thing to her liking, which means she will appreciate it more and remember the one who gave her such a present.

Keep her busy

“I wrote to her: “Meet me in an hour near the central park.” And she was late/didn't come. Although openly expressed interest in me. Strange…”.

Why didn't the lover show up on time? Changed your mind about the guy? Have you looked at another? Decided to laugh or “fill your worth”?

It turns out that none of the reasons are suitable. The girl was elementary at work and could not escape early, but even read the message. That is why it is better to agree on a meeting time in advance, taking into account the possibilities of both parties.

Have fallback options

A man wants to invite his colleague to have dinner on the summer terrace of a cafe after work. What can go wrong:

the weather will deteriorate sharply;
the woman does not want to have supper;
the establishment will close earlier;
delayed by the boss or the client.

What then? To prevent such troubles from occurring at all, it is better to come up with a few spare ideas. Even if they are not used during the first date, they can be used on the next. And the variability will allow you to achieve a greater location and, in principle, get the partner’s consent to the meeting.

Provide emotions

One of the goals of a romantic evening is to get to know your partner better. However, an equally important task is the creation of shared memories and emotions.

Psychologists have discovered a paradoxical fact - nothing brings people together like watching a horror movie. Rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath during such a movie viewing begins to be associated with a companion. And these are signs not only of fear, but also of love.

And yet for the first time such leisure is rarely suitable. Fortunately, there are other, more loyal ways to evoke new feelings:

trip to the amusement park;
joint fun games;
attending concerts or comedies;
general sports;
visiting animal shelters.

You can even do without these methods by offering a simple walk or lunch / dinner in a cafe, if you heed the following advice.

Use humor

The ability to laugh is a wonderful trait. If it is not given by nature, it is better not to rush to reread collections of jokes, memorizing them. They are far from live communication, and at first it will be difficult to use them to the point. Instead, you can:

watch the performance of comedians, remember your favorites miniatures(not individual jokes);
recall funny incidents from life - one's own, acquaintances;
use animals - take a dog, a cat, a talking parrot;
come up with / subtract harmless practical jokes suitable for passers-by or even the girl herself.

Knowing how to joke does not always mean causing violent non-stop fits of laughter. Humor is soft and light. You can be a sharp satirist and scare away your companion, or you can have a slight self-irony and attract even more. And sometimes it’s enough just to be yourself, and for a smile to show a funny video from the Internet.

radiate confidence

It is better not to confuse this quality with insolence. Some girls like persistence, but not assertiveness. The line between these concepts is too thin, so it is very easy to fail already at the invitation stage. To avoid this, it is enough to remember a simple formula:

adequate self-esteem + determination = confidence

To feel faith in yourself, it is important to monitor your posture, try to make it open, less tense. If you gently joke about your shortcomings, it will become much easier to perceive them. And if you do not notice them at all, then the interlocutor will not pay attention to them or forget about them after 5 minutes of a fascinating conversation.

respond appropriately to the response

A girl may refuse a date because of the irresponsibility of feelings. However, this is not the only reason. Here are a few more:

surprise, “jitters”, nervousness;
employment;
dissatisfaction with the time or place of the meeting;
the desire to test the level of male perseverance;
temporary problems that do not allow distractions.

Receiving the answer "no", you can try again, but a little later or under different circumstances. Another alternative is to leave the girl the opportunity to change her mind:

transfer your contacts to her (number, mail, social network account);
promise to still wait for a meeting at the agreed place;
to say that the offer is in any case in force;
ask her to think over the answer for a while;
ask something like “How can I change your mind?”.

With a positive answer, it is advisable to thank the girl for the chance, smile, gently take her hand. You can't drastically change your behavior or act like her consent is just another trophy.

In responsible and stressful decisions - such as asking a girl out on a date, for example - it is important to maintain composure. Understanding the situation and knowing how to behave during the invitation will increase confidence. This article contains enough information to awaken firmness and determination in yourself. The rest is a matter of luck and mutual sympathy.

Have you met a guy, and now every free minute of your time is occupied with thoughts of a date with him? But what if you really want to meet a new object of sympathy, but he is in no hurry to take the first step? There is only one thing left: to do it yourself, and most importantly - unobtrusively, but only so that he does not refuse.

Can I ask a guy out on a date?

Taking the first step for a girl is not a crime, it is very appropriate if the guy has been expressing sympathy for you for a long time and you have known each other for more than a day. It is also not superfluous to take the initiative if a man is distinguished by excessive modesty, isolation and unsociableness. And, of course, if the young lady is deeply in love and she absolutely does not care how it will look from the outside. The initiative on the part of a girl is not so strange, especially in the modern world. You only need to beware of indifferent guys when it is obvious that he is not interested in you. There is a high risk of rejection. You should not take the initiative when it can damage the girl's reputation. In any case, they don’t take money for demand and it’s worth a try, especially if you really want to.

Follow instructions

What is customary to do when a girl likes a guy for a long time, but he does not show any initiative to date? We are recommended to flirt, flirt, smile sweetly and wait, wait, wait. Or is it better to take matters into your own hands and try to take that cherished first step. Psychologists even made instructions, and not to spoil the whole impression of themselves. So let's start.

Make sure the guy is in a relationship

This first step is essential if you want to build a strong relationship, not just one big problem. Otherwise, tears on the shoulder of a friend cannot be avoided and long discussions about how it happened, too. Most men don't feel the need to let you know they're in a relationship. He can calmly flirt with you, but at the same time be in a strong relationship, or even be married. But you don't need all this, do you? You can study the situation on social networks, ask friends and acquaintances. Before you figure out if you can ask a guy on a date, make sure that he is free and go to the second stage.

Choose a place and time

In fact, organizing a date is a real art. We will leave the cinema for later, because it is too early to buy tickets for the last row, and the purpose of the first date is to get to know each other as best as possible in order to understand whether there is an interest to continue the relationship further or not. Theater and exhibitions are also best left for later. Not every man loves such events, and he will like such an idea, if only he is madly in love with you and is ready to move mountains just to spend an extra minute together. But what if that's not the case at all? So where to invite a guy on a date in Moscow? The best option is a cafe. And do not aim at a pretentious restaurant, take pity on your boyfriend and do not put him in an uncomfortable position. An ideal option would be a bar with affordable prices or a summer terrace, weather permitting. Cafe is an ideal opportunity to talk enough and get to know each other better. Of course, over time it will all be much easier. For a first date at the initiative of a girl, a couple of hours is enough, no more.

Let's go to the invitation

The most important rule is to invite a guy on a date so that he will never think that this is a date. No matter how paradoxical it may sound. Men are most often shy and sometimes they themselves are afraid to take that very first step, but even in this state of affairs, the guy must feel that everything rests on him, that it is he who is the master of the situation. You need to invite with all the elegance characteristic of girls. The phrase on how to invite a guy on a date may be as follows: “Imagine, a new restaurant has opened very close here, they say there is delicious pasta.” This way you do not speak directly, but give the guy the opportunity to take matters into his own hands.

How do you hint at a date?

To get started, find out what new and interesting things have recently appeared in your city. For example, bars open in the capitals almost every day, so the phrase: “I heard a new bar with good cocktails has opened, maybe we’ll try it?” - would be very appropriate. It sounds more friendly and does not entail any hints of something more. If a guy didn’t take the first step just because he was afraid to take the initiative, then he will quickly take matters into his own hands, he just needs a little push. And after the meeting, he, of course, will thank you for the good idea and offer to repeat the meeting. If a guy feels exceptionally friendly emotions for you, then he is also very likely to agree with your proposal, but he will not offer to meet a second time, and he will behave exclusively like a friend. You can determine this after the first cocktail. If the guy refuses, you shouldn’t be upset either, be glad that you didn’t waste your time and didn’t have time to fall in love, so that you can suffer later.

How to behave on a date?

The first date is awkward 90 times out of 100. You set yourself the goal: "I want to invite a guy on a date", you did it, but what's next? How to behave, what to wear and say? A kind of interview awaits you, only in a more informal setting. You should not dress brightly and pretentiously, this can only confuse your chosen one. Before the meeting, check his social media, find out what he is interested in, and determine for yourself what topics you can support and what you will say if there is an awkward pause. And nowhere without a smile and a good mood!

How to invite?

It’s a good option to invite a guy on a date by SMS, especially if you are afraid of rejection, an invitation on social networks is also suitable here. The hardest thing is to do it in person. You can invite a guy on a date with the following phrases:

I happened to have an extra ticket for a play / film, maybe you want to join?
I have an exhibition / master class coming soon, come, I will be glad to see you!
Now I don't have time, but I would continue this conversation. Maybe tomorrow at 7 in a cafe across the street?
My friends and I are going on a picnic, would you like to join us?
I'm having problems with my computer, maybe you'll have time to stop by to check what's wrong?

There can be a huge number of such phrases, but they should all be clear, short and unobtrusive.

In order for the date to go well, and the next meeting will definitely take place, you should take note of the following rules:

If you don't know how to hint to a guy about a date, and don't want to ask him out yourself, drop a phrase during the conversation that you will have to spend the next weekend alone, and don't forget to mention that it makes you very upset.
If a guy tells you about some event that he would really like to go to, whether it's a concert or an exhibition, express your desire to go there too.
Remember about tactile communication: accidentally touching your hand, holding a hand, and so on - this is an extra opportunity to get closer and at the same time evaluate whether you are nice to a guy or not.
During the dialogue, be cheerful, laugh at jokes and never whine. The young lady should unobtrusively emphasize how much they have in common with the guy, and mention that it is very interesting in his company.

Common interests are always an incentive for further communication, look for them, and it will become easier to build a dialogue. Asking a guy out on a date is a lot easier than you think.

Most young guys are terribly afraid to take the first step - to invite the object of their adoration to a meeting, a date. Young people believe that girls are waiting for a prince on a white horse, and this is clearly not them. Others cannot build a relationship, because they do not know where to start a conversation, how to invite a woman to meet. And even mature men who have taken place in life have problems when communicating with girls. Why is this happening? And how to invite a girl on a date?

Why are guys afraid to ask girls out on dates?

Many guys experience a violent fear of approaching a girl. Representatives of the weaker sex feel this uncertainty. And when the guy decides to speak, they refuse him. Since it is laid down by nature that females choose only confident, strong earners, males. The fear of hearing "no" takes over, and young people are left with nothing.

The main reason for this behavior is self-doubt. There are a number of other factors that prevent a man from building a full-fledged relationship:

Complexes. The model of behavior in the family, features of appearance during puberty develop a number of complexes in young people. At the sight of his passion, these complexes only double. Thoughts begin to arise in my head that he is not a couple for such a beautiful, perfect girl.
Women's self-confidence. Some representatives of the weaker sex are too confident, pompous. They feel like queens, and everyone around them is unworthy of her attention. Such girls enjoy the overwhelming humiliation of a guy, refusal in front of friends.
Feeling of inadequacy. Representatives of the stronger sex are not always strong. They may think that losers have not achieved anything in life, which means they are not worthy of such a woman.

Preparing for an invitation

If a guy is afraid to invite his crush on a date, it doesn't matter. Fear can be completely eradicated, there is a carefully prepared for such a step. So, first you need to think about where you would like to invite the girl to the first meeting. A pre-prepared place eliminates the moment of surprise, hitch. It is better to prepare several options for the development of events. After all, a girl may refuse to go to the cinema, but she will simply walk in the park with pleasure.

You also need to take care of the meeting time. For example, "Waiting for you at the entrance to the cinema at 18:00." A clear, prepared phrase will instill confidence in the guy. And women rarely refuse self-confident men. The prepared invitation must be repeated several times in front of the mirror. If there are no difficulties in pronunciation, and the invitation itself sounds normal, you can proceed to direct action.

Phrases for a date invitation

In fact, asking a girl out on a date is as easy as shelling pears. It is not at all necessary to come up with a script, to think over every word. Everything ingenious is simple. For a date to take place, it is enough to invite a passion, and that's it. You don't need to jump over your head. There are a number of frequently used phrases that are always relevant and lead to success:

"Can I invite you to eat?" This phrase is used very often. But in order not to frighten the girl, it is better to reformulate such an invitation a little. For example, "Let's go to a restaurant sometime during the week?". When the girl agrees, an acceptable day and time are negotiated. Instead of a restaurant, you can use a cafeteria, cafe.
"Let's have coffee together one of these days." This option is the most optimal if the guy does not know the girl well. Perhaps he met her in line at the supermarket, or on public transport. But, she deeply sunk into the soul, and in order not to lose touch with her, you need to move on to action. While a man does not know her taste preferences, interests, hobbies. Therefore, a cup of coffee is the best occasion to meet again.
“I have two movie tickets, can you keep me company?”. Of course, tickets must be for her favorite movie, or at least genre. But, the cinema is not the best option for a first date.

After the first date has taken place, it will be much easier to make the next invitation. The guy will already know the hobby, the wishes of the girl. The number of options for holding a second meeting will also increase. So, you can go to the skating rink, bowling, go to the local beach, ride catamarans. If a man really likes a woman, it doesn't matter where she goes. She will agree to just walk with him in the park, chat.

When to say all this?

In the era of modern technology, you can make an invitation not only in person. In addition, sometimes guys are afraid to do it in person, in front of them. Therefore, for an invitation to a meeting, you can use a phone call, sms, social network.

Phone invitation

This option is the most common. Therefore, if you know the girl's phone number, use it. The main thing is not to call her too late or too early. Do not drag out your conversation, incessantly chatter. Long pauses are unacceptable. It is enough to ask how the girl is doing, what she is doing. And directly invite her to the meeting. If you hear a refusal, you do not need to beg and insist. When she is ready, she will call you herself.

SMS

Very often it is girls who use messages as the first step. If you receive an SMS “How are you? What are you doing?” is the green light. So, the passion is waiting for an invitation from you on a date. This is the time to act. In response, you can write “Have you been to the cinema for a long time? Can we go somehow?" Invite the girl to discuss your affairs and activities directly in person. After all, it is impossible to tell everything in a message.

Use of social networks

This option is the easiest. In absentia, you already know each other, as you see the profile photo. But, at the moment of a direct invitation, the girl does not see your excitement, redness and jitters. In the social network, you radiate poise and self-confidence. Before you send the text of the message, you need to reread it, correct possible grammatical errors. Most girls automatically blacklist those guys who do not follow the rules of grammar and spelling.

Invitation in person

This method is not suitable for everyone. In a personal meeting, you will no longer be able to hide behind a computer monitor, a telephone handset. But, it also has its advantages. So, when inviting a girl on a date in person, you can use your trump cards:

smile. Owners of beautiful teeth, a pleasant aroma from the oral cavity often use this.
Attractive appearance. Girls also love with their eyes; external attractiveness is also important for them. For each she has her own. Therefore, if you take care of yourself, a woman will not refuse you.
Sight. Through the look, you will show your confidence and perseverance. Look closely at the girl, captivate her with your eyes. But shifty eyes, a look at the floor is a sure way to failure.

Using such simple tips, it will not be difficult to invite even the most beautiful girl on the planet for a date. If everything goes well, subsequent meetings are guaranteed.